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:: RHYTHM :: This weekend sees the equinox, the sun moving into Libra + the moon becoming full in Aries - it’s no surprise that our pull from the #sassysheoraclecards is RHYTHM. (Things have changed a lil bit round here, I do a Moonday card pull with the SHE Power Collective each Monday, I share correspondences for spells + rituals for the card, a deeper insight into the card story and her SHE archetype as well as guidance for the week ahead. It’s super juicy + you can join us at the SHE Power Collective, link is in the bio: @sassylisalister + I’ll be sharing a sneaky peek like the one below on a Wednesday here on the ‘gram.) When you pull the RHYTHM card, it’s your invitation to call on the presence of SHE and remember when the drummers were women. A time when the frame drum was a ritual instrument, when it was used to celebrate woman as a creatrix, when the beat of the drum represented the rhythmic intelligence held within a woman’s body. (It’s no surprise that women’s drumming was banned as part of spiritual and religious life, is it?!) Consider the pull of this card an opportunity to become the initiator. There are currently entire universes laying un-manifested + dormant in your being, so what’s moving through you that needs to be created, what is begging to be realized?
#rhythm #shepower #shepowercollective #loveyourladylandscape #oracle #art #tarot #equinox #fullmooninaries #suninlibra #magic #astrology #wakethewitches

:: SHE POWER COLLECTIVE :: For so long, I've been called a ‘rebel’ + ‘un-coachable’ (both were meant as put downs, but I took them both as a total positive! ha!) + I've said 'no' to business opportunities that others would has TOTALLY said yes to, because I simply wouldn't/couldn't follow a tried + tested 'business' model.

For a while I thought I was a bit broken + that I 'just wasn’t made for business' but that wasn't true. It's because the business models that were being offered up were patriarchal, they were all straight-line, five point plans, goal orientated + most importantly, they were not in concordance with how I show up + create.
This is why I love the SHE Power Collective space that's unfolding over Patreon.
It's allowing me to lean into a place of trust + self-source-ery. Now, THIS is how I create.
It holds me accountable, but not to anyone else's agenda/model, only to my own creativity. I don't have to be 'disciplined' to create a 'thing', I get to choose devotion instead.
When I'm devoted to the work that I create + I'm able to share from that place, a place that's not fixed, or linear, a place that's in tune with my cyclic + rhythmic intelligence, well...THAT place is where fierce magic happens.

It's fecund.
It's juicy.
It's lush.
It's fertile.
I’ll be honest, at the beginning of this year, I thought I'd never write another book again, but this week I've planned + planted seeds in ritual for more than one new book + a few super creative projects. (I’ve had to at least start them + declare them in real-time before lucky, expansive Jupiter leaves my first house in a few weeks!)
I've also written words on a page + they're NOT rubbish.
I've also blogged + shared in the SHE Power Collective which has been straight from the heart + womb riffs, those that are gathering are AMAZING + are already sharing from their big beat-y hearts.

When people ask me what the SHE Power Collective is, my response is: I don’t bloody know.
It could be a LOT of things, but right now, all I want is for it to be a space where we ALL get to be in the process. Of being a woman. Becoming whole.

If you're called, come + join me link in bio @sassylisalister

:: VENUS :: Firstly can we take a moment to be in total awe of this glorious image by Harmonia Rosales @honeiee (Thanks @themysticalarts for the introduction to this woman’s AMAZING art. I’m obsessed.) Remington says: “Friday is Venus day. She is the frequency of romance, art, intuition, creativity and all things yummy, delicious + sensual (on all levels.)
Deeper lessons of Venus are understanding + recognising what is of true value to your soul.” Over at the SHE Power Collective (come join us, link is in my bio @sassylisalister) I’m sharing all about my love of Venus, her ‘dance’, cycles, symbology + myths + how she as a planet, siren + goddess is my guiding light/homegirl as I navigate a new body of creative work that’s moving through me.

Take a moment today, Friday, day of Venus, to tune into her Venusian teachings - what is of true value to YOUR soul right now?
#venus #astrology #planets #goddess #shepower #shepowercollective #loveyourladylandscape #wakethewitches

@fearnecotton - you’re bloody brilliant.
This woman and her team have created such a glorious ‘happy place’ here in the big London today.
Feel v.happy to be spending the day with my bestie @root_and_flower + @tildagibbons sharing Jen’s incredible sensory magic (+ tried to be cool when meeting the hot man from Bake Off @selasigb . Failed. A lot. )

Feeling very much in my happy place.
What’s YOUR happy place?
#happyplacelive #mind

MOONDAY SHE READING: unedited insight + wisdom from SHE, through me, for the week ahead.
It’s a new moon in Virgo + today's pull from the #sassysheoraclecards is: BARE

NOTE: If you love these weekly pulls, I’m going to be taking a deeper dive with the cards, their medicine, mythology + the archetypes they represent, starting next Monday over at the ‘SHE Power Collective’ on Patreon. (Link is in bio @sassylisalister for more details)

SHE SAYS: stop hiding behind the mask of who you 'think' you 'should' be.
Stop being who you think others want you to be in order to be liked or admired - who are you beneath it all?
This week you're being called to strip down + get Bare.
Physically, emotionally + spiritually.
Get to know ALL your parts.
The dark and the light.
Where you feel fear, and more importantly, why.
Are you willing to meet the enemies of your soul?

Stand naked in front of a mirror and really look at yourself.
Can you do that?
Can you do it without judgement? Can you look past your body + 'see' what's there?
Hear what comes up, words + labels - fat, pretty, kind, selfish - ask what's yours + then begin to recognise which of these words and labels were given to you by other people.
This isn't just a one-time exercise. You're going to need to do it a few times. (Social + familial conditioning runs DEEP.) You don't have to try and 'fix' any of it, but getting to know yourself in this way, stripping back the layers 'til you're bone deep, (this WILL feel raw, but stay with it, there’s gold in the discoveries you will make.) knowing what's yours to work with and what's been 'given' to you by society + cultural + familial conditioning, means that you build foundations FROM that place, you can’t be side-swiped because no one can ever 'have' anything on you or over you, because you're no longer hiding from yourself.
Nothing comes as a surprise - you know ALL your parts + you own them all.
This creates wholeness.
And a woman who is whole?
She's a fucking force.
Woman, be a fucking force.
Come join me over at patreon for in-depth readings + explorations. Cards are also available to buy. Link in bio @sassylisalister

:: THE DARK MOON FEELS ::
So, for those of you wondering, yes, I STILL have the dark moon feels.
Turns out I caught them BIG.
What ARE the ‘dark moon feels?’ This is NOT an exhaustive list, but they CAN include, irritability, regret, lethargy, not wanting to ‘people’, impatience and a whole lot of ‘f*ck you’ vibes. (If, like me, you’re a Scorpio, or have a ton of scorpz in your chart, this may be how it feels to be you on the daily. I feel you.) Honestly, if I had my way, we’d all get dark moon time off to be under a blanket, eating chocolate + drinking gin.
FYI: if you bleed, the DMF’s are like those few hours just before you’re about to bleed, which you only recognise once you ACTUALLY bleed + go ‘ahhhh, so THAT’S why I was feeling bat shit crazy!’ The DMF’s are caught between the balsamic waning moon + the first sliver of new moon. When the sky is at it’s darkest, the moon is in direct alignment between the earth and the sun + there’s zero illumination so she can’t be seen.
The dark moon is like that pause at the end of the exhale or the savasana at the end of yoga – it’s a time for rest, introspection + assimilation of all that’s been witnessed, received + learnt during that particular moon cycle. Except, for some of us, (especially if we’re NOT resting, introspecting or assimilating) its a time when the DMF’s can hit. HARD.

I recommend fierce nourishment (despite the fact you may want to reach for ALL the junk food) LOTS of salt baths, ALL the sleep you can get, reflecting in my journal, I’m not big on doing any magic + ritual working at this time but when I do, I use it for ancestral work + divination, + where possible, no peopling. (This would be my Scorpio rule for life if I had my way!) How do you deal with the DMF’s?
For those of you wanting to dive into exploring your SHE ‘scape - the cosmic + rhythmic intelligence of the cycles that influence both your inner + outer landscape, I’ll be sharing more in tomorrow’s Sunday SHE Mail, you can sign up at the website: www.thesassyshe.com - link in the bio @sassylisalister

:: SHE ‘SCAPE :: Now, I want to be maximising my super-sociable, Day 13 ovulation goodness, but instead, I’ve caught the irritated, dark moon feels. Grrr.
This is one of the BIG challenges I find about having a full moon bleed cycle.
It’s like my body and the moon are in a ‘push me, pull you’ situ at every new + full moons.
How do I deal?
I run a bath.
At 7pm.
On a Friday night.
My ovaries want me to go dance, talk, flirt with my husband but the moon + my irritation of...well, just about everybody, has won out today + it’s in everyone’s best interest (especially @richlisteruk) that I just get in the bloody bath with Heart of Thorns by @speakbreely - this book is SO GOOD. (Also UK witches, Sainsbury’s has Dr. Salts Dead Sea salts on offer - infused with rosemary and eucalyptus, that stuff is MAGIC. It’s my new fave. Go get some. Or make your own infusion. Up to you. Did I mention I was irritable today?!!!) If you’ve caught dark moon feels, I’m sending you the big love. From a distance. Obvz. 📸@ravishly
#sharemycycle #menstruation #loveyourladylandscape #newmoon #newmooninvirgo #darkmoon #wakethewitches #shepower #shescape

It’s been eight years since @richlisteruk and I went on our first date.
We went to the sea this weekend to remember.
Not to remember love, no, we’re good at that. We remember love when we’re washing dishes, when we’re making out, when we’re in Paris, when we argue, when we first wake, when we’re poorly, and all the spaces + ways to love that are in between, no, we went to the sea to remember who we are.
We switched off our phones for days. (I loved it, didn’t realise how distracting + noisy it had become in my life, plan on doing it much, much more.) We dropped the labels of who every one thinks/wants/expects us to be, ourselves included, + we splashed in the sea, danced, bought books, read books, wrote notes in moleskines, walked along Cornish coastlines telling each other the stories of our dreams.
I am forever grateful to love, to navigate this lifetime + be on an endless adventure with this big hearted human.